Perhaps your revulsion about being with another guy is really related to your shame and feelings of inferiority to them, which would also explain why you feel more comfortable around girls. I won't claim to be a psychologist, but it sounds like you're envious of other guys and afraid and intimidated by them at the same time. I don't mean to sound harsh, but it's hard to justify that you're not attracted to guys when you say that's the type of porn that gets you off.
So be selective of what you take onto your senses! Go out in the world and have fun and don’t hurt anyone. Let your mind, body and emotions develop first. Your mind is a sponge and everything you see, taste, hear, touch is in adolescence will become a port of your life forever. One last thing, don’t watch porn until you are at least out of your teens! You are not a bad person if you watch porn, but if you watch too much you will hard wire your brain for it so that you can easily get addicted or imprint what you are watching onto your own sexual behavior. However at this stage in your life you probably do not have the life experience to understand that your attraction is just projection. But simply put, when you see a naked male in porno movies, your natural bonding instinct and your hormones are compelling you to look and or share the experience that you are watching. It’s all completely normal and when you many of you mature, you will learn to appreciate your own sexual and life experiences more without this need. When you watch porn you project your natural curiosity about your own bodies and this bonding instinct onto the figures on screen. Boys who have no father figure or older male to look up to will sometimes experience this need to bond more than boys who have no nurturing older male figures in their lives. For some young men it’s stronger than others.
(In case you don’t know what that means, look it up!)Ī lot of what you are feeling is related to 2 things: surging hormones and the natural instinct in males to bond with other males, be they friends or older father/brother figures. The Abrahamic cults would love nothing more than to see someone suffer, just say “No!” to Abrahamic Cults. So unless you are of Middle Eastern origin, don’t worry about the Bible. The Bible was written for Middle East tribes thousands of years ago and not for anyone else. Also, don’t let people quote the Bible to you. These things will guide you through life and will never fail you. Keep your pride, your self-respect, and your humanity with you at all times. Most important to remember in any of what you’re experiencing right now is that whatever you turn out to be, gay, straight, bi etc., you are first and foremost a human being and deserve all rights accordingly. There is a reason why you're having these thoughts and watching so much porn! And it's not because you're gay! So put down your PSP, (and your Red Bull) and listen up.įirst off, you all got to chill on the, "Am I gay or not?" At your age you are no more straight or gay than you are a surgeon or a lawyer, so any of the people here posting claims that you are gay or straight are ridiculous. If guys are younger than I have this to say.
when i'm with my guy friends i love talking about girls but i'm unable to use profanity & obscene words plus i'm very shy & don't talk much & i'm very bad at sports except swimming but i'm really good at acting dance art & music so they think i'm a sissy & gay do you guys think i'm gay or straight plz help me i'm very confusedĪt 20, you are at least bi sexual. I'm 20 yrs old male & i watch gay porn while i masturbate i mostly like a guy jacking off or giving a blowjob or nude pics of male celebrities & i'm turned on by it.but the idea of getting physical with another guy is revolting to me & i've never been sexually attracted to another guy or even fantasized about one it all started as curiosity during puberty when my body was changing & i wanted to know if other guys go through the same changes but i've always been attracted to girls all i think of when i see is good looking guy is that why i can't i be as good looking as him & i am more comfortable around a group of girls than a group of guys expect when the girls start havin girl talks about guys & stuff.